Wednesday, 2 November 2011

Looking at life in a different way!

Just lately I've found myself feeling happy. This shouldn't be a huge surprise as I've been lucky enough to spend most of my life in a state of happiness. However, this last year has felt hard. But, I've realised that is because my perception has been wrong.

Of course:

A) This time last year I had a job that I loved whereas I now have a job that I complete. But, at least, I am lucky enough to have a job - and a well paid one at that!

B) The year has been tough in terms of relationships. But, whilst things may not have turned out how I have wished, I have some wonderful memories of times that I spent with a lovely lady.

C) I have on going issues with the ex-wife that are impacting upon my ability to be the father that I want to be. But, at least I am always striving to be that father. I may not be perfect but I am me - and I would do absolutely anything for my little ones.

Today, I walked around Birmingham, a City I have known all my life, and saw beauty where I once would have seen decay.



Life is beautiful!

6 comments:

  1. Funny thing I've been looking at things in a more positive light too - maybe it's the time of year but ut is beautiful!

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  2. It is amazing how perspective changes everything!

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  3. I'm seing decay LOL

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  4. It is all about how you view things, isn't it? And I think you sound more contented than happy, if you pardon me for saying so. Contentment is a natural level to be at, happy is good but when there are ups there are downs! And as my blog title suggets, contentment is taking your pleasure from the small things in life. -HMx

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  5. Oops I keep posting as my real name - I'm Humdrum!

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  6. Ooh, that tower on the end of the building was cool. -Missy

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